Beyond description . . .

He went out in the afternoon. I was at home all alone. When he came back, the first thing when he stepped into our study room is to complain and scold and rave about the curtain not fully drawn (probably just 5% not fully drawn). He nagged and nagged. I said sorry (although wondering what's his issue with such a smaller case.). He went out of the room for a short while, come back, and continued to nag about the curtain although apologizing for the harsh tone. He was not joking at all, stern face, harsh tone, repeated warnings.

Serious, I could not and would not take it sitting down. So when he kept going on and on, I finally stood up, walked to the curtain and asked him what's the big deal which side the curtain is pulled to. Why does it irk him so much that the curtian is fully drawn or 95% drawn? Does this kind of senseless thing bother him much more than other issues like hygiene? Does it make more sense for him to stop peeing at the brim of the toilet bowl, or at least clean it up if it happened? Anyway, cut the crap about him telling me so many times and I dont' know how to change. I told him to stop folding papers, did he change?

Then he ordered me to watch my tone. OK, fine! I changed my tone and told him that since he hates it so much when I use a harsh tone on him for the things that I hate, and he also admited that his tone was harsh when he told me what he hate, then he jolly well know that he should change his tone of voice when telling me about things too. He hates it when people do it to him, but he keeps doing it to others, BASIC CHARACTER FLAW!!!!!!!

DEAF & UNREASONABLE . . .

Read these....

"Have you filed your tax?"
"I've tried to last night but the website was down."
"You better do it OK! Don't always wait for me to tell you to do things. No initiative at all. What have you learned? I've told you so many times already. If I don't say, nothing gets done! You better change understand?"

DUH!!!!! Is he deaf!??!?!!? Doesn't he understand simple english????

I said I TRIED.....but website was DOWN!!!!!!!!

It's not that I didn't do it. It's not that I had to wait for him to tell me before I'll do it. IT'S THAT I HAVE TRIED, and the WEBSITE WAS DOWN!!!!!!!!

Bloody hell!!!! Stupid nagger.....!

I HATE TO DRIVE WHEN HE IS AROUND . . .

From the minute we step into the car, he comments about every damn thing until ..... I don't know ..... maybe until something else crop up or that it never will end until we quarrel and he starts shouting at me.

I really hate to drive while he is around. I simply hate to drive, which then leads to me having less practice, when he is sitting beside me while I am driving.

The more he nags at the simpliest thing, the more I grew weary of him. The more I grew weary of him, the more I dread driving with him around. The more I dread it the more I don't want to be stuck in that position. The more I don't want to drive with him around, the more he will get angry when I don't want to drive. Then he will insist that I am weak and lack of confidence and I am scared of being scolded by him. Honestly, I am, of the 3 points he mentioned, only scared of being scolded by him. It's not that I did the wrong thing and am scared that he scolds me. It's that he nags at every single little thing. He thinks he is so damn good at driving and know every damn thing about driving that he knows best and I don't know a thing. He thinks that I am wrong in every situation and I have room for improvement in every god damn thing. It may be true, I'm not the arrogant kinda guy to think that I'm best at everything. BUT DOES HE NEED TO NAG!?!?!?!?!??!!

His mom is right. The way he nags and scolds and comments, it will end up hurting more than educating. I'm now afraid of driving with him, cos it will most likely end up in a bad mood. And the more he nags, the less I drive and the more I err and the more he nags. It's a vicious cycle. Never ending. . .

He thinks he is teaching. But he is not. He is overloading. He is over intruding. He is over controlling. He is doing more harm then good. He is degrading my confidence. He is testing my patience and thinning it real fast. Imagine when you are at the wheel, there's some irritant that keeps nagging and commenting on all the dos and don'ts of your every action. Which lane you are on, which gear you are at, slow down too fast, slow down too slow, accelerating too fast, accelerating too slow, signalling too early, signalling too late, etc . . .

Come on, take a break! Does he need to do this? The more I drive, the more I know. He just need to comment on the truly necessary. What a nagger . . . !!!!!

Is a peaceful getaway so difficult . . .

He flared up and nagged on and on about me not wearing my bikini right? Maybe it's me. I'm not fit to wear bikini. Or is it that unless you are fat, you're bound to have some edge of the bikini not covering some part right? I mean.....if he scrutinize me closely, of course he can see a little here and there. But when he look at other girls from afar or just brifely, he won't be able to realise that it's the downside of wearing a bikini when you are thin. Duh.....!!!!

Anyway, just let it be that I wasn't careful. Does he need to scream and shout and howl at me? Can't he just sound me out gently? Maybe it's another reason why I am not that keen in swimming with him now.

The first step for our getaway is spoilt . . .

Does he need to get so worked up????? Yes, I forgot to ask for the total cost charged to the credit card for the Bintan trip. So I immediately called again to ask. But does he need to scold and nag and scold and nag in a tone so harsh? FUCK!

He can suggest a getaway (this is my birthday present) but he goes on to spoil the first step. Idiotic!

And that spoilt brat doesn't even want to attend my friend's baby shower with me now. I changed it to today so that we can go tomorrow. Just because of one missing information, the total nett amount he is supposed to pay. Then he want to come spoil my night.