Ultimate tyrant . . .
His ex-biz partner was absolutely right. THIS BASTARD CANNOT TAKE CRITICISM!!!! He just cannot accept other people telling him that he is wrong. But he can anytime anywhere tell people off whenever he thinks that others are wrong.
When I did something wrong (no matter how minor or trivial), he would scold me for not using my brains, not learning, not improving, always taking the long path, etc . . . And if I wasn't feeling well, he would top it up with 'don't care if you are sick or tired, a wrong is a wrong, and you have to admit it and change' theory.
So what happened just now?
He forgot to bring his keys out from the car again, for the umpteenth time. It is like about 10 times since we collect the car. So I said that he frequently forgets his keys in the car, and he never learn. Then guess what? It's an obvious answer. No prize for getting it right. He started scolding me for not showing a good attitude. He gave obvious hints for me to apologize. TO MAKE HIM HAPPY, I DID, when it was obviously his own wrongdoing. But he would not stop. He carried own blaming me and scolding me for pointing out his mistake. He said 'what's the big deal for forgetting the keys, will it kill?' Of course, it won't. I didn't make mistakes that will kill anyone too, why did he always have to scold me and call me stupid when I made the same 'mistake' twice?
He apologized when the lift reached our level. He stepped out and said sorry to me for blowing up and he said he would try to control his temper.
When we reached home, I unlocked the door. I went in, he followed. He went straight in and complained why I didn't lock the metal door, cos he didn't have the keys. Come on, he would be going down soon. If I lock the metal door, I'll get further scoldings for doing unnecessary things. So I said that he would be going down soon, why do I need to lock the door. I just closed the wooden door. He went mad again. He said when he asked me to do something, why can't I just do it. Why must I give comments. So it was my fault again, when he made an error in his statement. He again blew up at me.
He apologized again when he came out from the washroom. He came into the room and said sorry to me for blowing up and he said he would try to control his temper.
He sat down at his table. He realised the window was not opened to the fullest (actually it was opened up fully just that the curtain wasn't fully withdrawn, maybe 90%, cos I was so mad I wanted blog this down I can't be bothered if the curtain was 90% withdrawn or 100% withdrawn), he complained again. Saying how many times did he tell me to open the window to the fullest when night comes and nagged at me even after I apologized. I was frustrated, he said sorry twice, but he blew up within minutes after apologizing. I frowned but went to withdraw the curtains anyway. Then he became even angrier. He scolded me for showing an attitude whenever he says something about me.
After a few minutes, he again apologized to me. I just said 'OK' with an expressionless face. Better not have any expressions, and don't make any statements that will cause this monster to flare up again. He kept saying sorry, and I kept saying 'OK'. He asked me why I didn't sound sincere with my OK.
Ha, what do you want me to say!!!!
I told him before this 'sorry', he had already apologized twice, but what happened immediately after. He said this time he is sincere. I asked him if the first two times he had not apologized sincerely. He said no, they were also sincere. Then I told him it's no point apologizing sincerely to me then.
When I did something wrong (no matter how minor or trivial), he would scold me for not using my brains, not learning, not improving, always taking the long path, etc . . . And if I wasn't feeling well, he would top it up with 'don't care if you are sick or tired, a wrong is a wrong, and you have to admit it and change' theory.
So what happened just now?
He forgot to bring his keys out from the car again, for the umpteenth time. It is like about 10 times since we collect the car. So I said that he frequently forgets his keys in the car, and he never learn. Then guess what? It's an obvious answer. No prize for getting it right. He started scolding me for not showing a good attitude. He gave obvious hints for me to apologize. TO MAKE HIM HAPPY, I DID, when it was obviously his own wrongdoing. But he would not stop. He carried own blaming me and scolding me for pointing out his mistake. He said 'what's the big deal for forgetting the keys, will it kill?' Of course, it won't. I didn't make mistakes that will kill anyone too, why did he always have to scold me and call me stupid when I made the same 'mistake' twice?
He apologized when the lift reached our level. He stepped out and said sorry to me for blowing up and he said he would try to control his temper.
When we reached home, I unlocked the door. I went in, he followed. He went straight in and complained why I didn't lock the metal door, cos he didn't have the keys. Come on, he would be going down soon. If I lock the metal door, I'll get further scoldings for doing unnecessary things. So I said that he would be going down soon, why do I need to lock the door. I just closed the wooden door. He went mad again. He said when he asked me to do something, why can't I just do it. Why must I give comments. So it was my fault again, when he made an error in his statement. He again blew up at me.
He apologized again when he came out from the washroom. He came into the room and said sorry to me for blowing up and he said he would try to control his temper.
He sat down at his table. He realised the window was not opened to the fullest (actually it was opened up fully just that the curtain wasn't fully withdrawn, maybe 90%, cos I was so mad I wanted blog this down I can't be bothered if the curtain was 90% withdrawn or 100% withdrawn), he complained again. Saying how many times did he tell me to open the window to the fullest when night comes and nagged at me even after I apologized. I was frustrated, he said sorry twice, but he blew up within minutes after apologizing. I frowned but went to withdraw the curtains anyway. Then he became even angrier. He scolded me for showing an attitude whenever he says something about me.
After a few minutes, he again apologized to me. I just said 'OK' with an expressionless face. Better not have any expressions, and don't make any statements that will cause this monster to flare up again. He kept saying sorry, and I kept saying 'OK'. He asked me why I didn't sound sincere with my OK.
Ha, what do you want me to say!!!!
I told him before this 'sorry', he had already apologized twice, but what happened immediately after. He said this time he is sincere. I asked him if the first two times he had not apologized sincerely. He said no, they were also sincere. Then I told him it's no point apologizing sincerely to me then.
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