He only has niceties for anybody else except me . . . !
Nagging is his hobby! Last night, he finally went to take a look at our web album where I had uploaded our photos of the US trip. He didn't want some photos to be up there, so he told me to take down 3 photos. I immediately logged in to delete them. Half way through, he pointed out another 2. So I did it all at once, and I told him I had deleted them. I asked him if there were other photos that he didn't like. After a while, he said he wanted another few photos down and some other photos up, then he started nagging and nagging about why some photos that he felt was unflatterring up there. I went to take a look, some photos that he was skeptical about, was OK! He was just being oversensitive about his tummy in this particular t-shirt. I'm perfectly fine if he didn't want them uploaded. So I continued to delete what he told me to. But then, he started to scold. He kept telling me that i did not listen to what he said and that he didn't want those few photos loaded up. I got irritated when he wouldn't stop nagging after I had deleted the photos. I told him to just tell me which photos he didn't want, and that was enough, he didn't need to nag and nag.
Not surprisingly, he blew up. He accused me of not acting on his instructions of deleting the few photos. I told him I had deleted them. He then accused me of not telling him that I had deleted them. I told him I did tell him, but if he didn't refresh his page after I had deleted, of course the photos will still be on his monitor screen. So finally, he started accusing me of not telling him to refresh the page. DARN!!!! ARE YOU SUCH AN IT IDIOT???? DON"T YOU KNOW THAT YOU NEED TO REFRESH THE PAGE TO VIEW THE CHANGES???? Good grief, you are someone who knows how to use the net, knows how to fix a pc, knows how to troubleshoot pc problems. Don't tell me you need someone to tell you that you need to refresh the page to see changes done to the URL!!?!??!?!!?
Ridiculous, he is just finding some stupid reason to scold. As the chinese saying goes 'when you set your mind on accusing someone, it's not difficult to find excuses to say'. So after he realised I did what he wanted, he found another excuse to scold me, for not telling him that I had deleted. After he found out that I had told him what I had done, he found another excuse to scold me for not telling him to refresh his page. If he has amnesia or has alzheimer's disease, i'll gladly forgive him. But hey dude, you are a young chap in your 30s who is IT savvy enough not to need me to teach you about refreshing your page to reflect the changes. What happend? Some worms ate your brain?!?!!?
Just for that, he scolded me non-stop, about my attitude (check yourself, ego!), about my behaviour, about my way of doing things and what nots! He even threw an empty bottle onto my table and hit my pc. I was fuming mad inside. He had promised not to throw anything. Yet, this is the second time he did it after he made that promise. What a man of his words!
Finally, he decided to sleep it off, he went to the bedroom and ordered me to follow. I walked in and stood by the bed. He started to nag again. I just stood there and said my sorrys, although of course unwillingly, but just to please him and not to make the matter worse. But that didn't make things better. He had a solid track record of getting out of control with his own naggings (as you should have gathered from my past postings). He slowly packed his magazines off the BED (read, he had his magazines on the BED), mumbling at the same time that it was useless of me tidying up the house and buying his favourite magazines for him (great, what a way to be grateful), what he needed was just for me to keep quiet. After packing up his stuff from the bed, he saw my phone on the same bed as well. He deliberately flipped up the blanket and caused my phone to fly to the floor and scattered into parts. Luckily it was not my daily phone that I carry around. I kept my temper. Yea, he did not throw my phone, but that didn't mean he has the right to flip anything or kick or punch or break anything when he was in a bad mood. He blamed me for putting my phone on the bed, saying I should have known better. Oh well, you can put your magazines, newspaper, books, phone, whatever, on the bed. But I could not. What a tyrant! He ordered me to pick up my phone parts and fix it back. I swallowed hard and tried to piece it back, I couldn't find the body of the phone and got really mad. I roughly shoved the bed around to look for it. Hurt his foot/feet while doing that? I didn't care. Anyway, he didn't scream in pain, it was probably not serious. I even pulled up the mattress to search, throwing it left and right. It was then he stopped his shouting, he just used a firm tone to tell me to stop. (I realised that when I was super mad and started doing crazy things, he no longer shouts.)
After much struggle, he finally got into bed and ordered me to take a nap with him. He said that we will take a 20min break and talk later. Immediately after he said that sentence, he started nagging again. I reminded him that he had said to take a 20min break. He said OK! The moment I lay down, he started his nagging AGAIN!!!! I sat up again and stared at him, showing him the 'you-are-ridiculous' face, and reminded him again what he had just said 1 second ago. He finally stopped. I lay beside him, and tears just rolled down. I didn't sleep at all.
I've married a nutcase!
Not surprisingly, he blew up. He accused me of not acting on his instructions of deleting the few photos. I told him I had deleted them. He then accused me of not telling him that I had deleted them. I told him I did tell him, but if he didn't refresh his page after I had deleted, of course the photos will still be on his monitor screen. So finally, he started accusing me of not telling him to refresh the page. DARN!!!! ARE YOU SUCH AN IT IDIOT???? DON"T YOU KNOW THAT YOU NEED TO REFRESH THE PAGE TO VIEW THE CHANGES???? Good grief, you are someone who knows how to use the net, knows how to fix a pc, knows how to troubleshoot pc problems. Don't tell me you need someone to tell you that you need to refresh the page to see changes done to the URL!!?!??!?!!?
Ridiculous, he is just finding some stupid reason to scold. As the chinese saying goes 'when you set your mind on accusing someone, it's not difficult to find excuses to say'. So after he realised I did what he wanted, he found another excuse to scold me, for not telling him that I had deleted. After he found out that I had told him what I had done, he found another excuse to scold me for not telling him to refresh his page. If he has amnesia or has alzheimer's disease, i'll gladly forgive him. But hey dude, you are a young chap in your 30s who is IT savvy enough not to need me to teach you about refreshing your page to reflect the changes. What happend? Some worms ate your brain?!?!!?
Just for that, he scolded me non-stop, about my attitude (check yourself, ego!), about my behaviour, about my way of doing things and what nots! He even threw an empty bottle onto my table and hit my pc. I was fuming mad inside. He had promised not to throw anything. Yet, this is the second time he did it after he made that promise. What a man of his words!
Finally, he decided to sleep it off, he went to the bedroom and ordered me to follow. I walked in and stood by the bed. He started to nag again. I just stood there and said my sorrys, although of course unwillingly, but just to please him and not to make the matter worse. But that didn't make things better. He had a solid track record of getting out of control with his own naggings (as you should have gathered from my past postings). He slowly packed his magazines off the BED (read, he had his magazines on the BED), mumbling at the same time that it was useless of me tidying up the house and buying his favourite magazines for him (great, what a way to be grateful), what he needed was just for me to keep quiet. After packing up his stuff from the bed, he saw my phone on the same bed as well. He deliberately flipped up the blanket and caused my phone to fly to the floor and scattered into parts. Luckily it was not my daily phone that I carry around. I kept my temper. Yea, he did not throw my phone, but that didn't mean he has the right to flip anything or kick or punch or break anything when he was in a bad mood. He blamed me for putting my phone on the bed, saying I should have known better. Oh well, you can put your magazines, newspaper, books, phone, whatever, on the bed. But I could not. What a tyrant! He ordered me to pick up my phone parts and fix it back. I swallowed hard and tried to piece it back, I couldn't find the body of the phone and got really mad. I roughly shoved the bed around to look for it. Hurt his foot/feet while doing that? I didn't care. Anyway, he didn't scream in pain, it was probably not serious. I even pulled up the mattress to search, throwing it left and right. It was then he stopped his shouting, he just used a firm tone to tell me to stop. (I realised that when I was super mad and started doing crazy things, he no longer shouts.)
After much struggle, he finally got into bed and ordered me to take a nap with him. He said that we will take a 20min break and talk later. Immediately after he said that sentence, he started nagging again. I reminded him that he had said to take a 20min break. He said OK! The moment I lay down, he started his nagging AGAIN!!!! I sat up again and stared at him, showing him the 'you-are-ridiculous' face, and reminded him again what he had just said 1 second ago. He finally stopped. I lay beside him, and tears just rolled down. I didn't sleep at all.
I've married a nutcase!
posted by Caller From The Falls at 11:31 PM
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